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Posts Tagged with Swinging Downunder

Self-Medicating With MDMA at My Sister’s Wedding

Self-Medicating With MDMA at My Sister’s Wedding

August 6, 2020Author Erin

I recently tried self-medicating with MDMA to overcome my shyness and introvert nature to give a speech at my sister’s wedding.

Challenging “Drug Free”: What’s Your Comfort Level?

Challenging “Drug Free”: What’s Your Comfort Level?

June 4, 2020Author Shane

Rather than using the vague and inconsistent term “drug free” on dating sites, we propose a 1–7 scale that represents the comfort level people have with substances use.

How to Be a Good Sherpa: Introducing Friends to Drugs

How to Be a Good Sherpa: Introducing Friends to Drugs

April 30, 2020Author Shane

Being asked to guide a friend on a drug experience is awesome responsibility. Here are my recommendations on how to be a good sherpa.

Drugs in the Lifestyle: Challenging the Perception

Drugs in the Lifestyle: Challenging the Perception

April 21, 2020Author Shane

The Swinging Downunder podcast had us on to talk about drugs in the lifestyle. Here are some more thoughts on the many misconceptions out there.

Of Cuckolds, Hotwives, Stags, and Vixens

Of Cuckolds, Hotwives, Stags, and Vixens

January 4, 2020Author Shane

I explore the differences between cuckolds, hotwives, stags, and vixens and why I prefer the the term stag & vixen to describe a couple over hotwife.

Consent in the Lifestyle: Easy and Sexy

Consent in the Lifestyle: Easy and Sexy

December 13, 2019Author Shane

When we first started our lifestyle journey, we thought getting consent would be difficult and disrupt the mood. Turns out, it’s easier than we thought!

Let’s Chat: Opening Up About Fantasies and Desires

Let’s Chat: Opening Up About Fantasies and Desires

November 20, 2019Author Shane

One of the golden rules of swingerdom is communication, being forthcoming and open with your significant other(s) and with your potential swinging partner(s). Communication is essential for everyone to feel safe and comfortable and to enjoy the experience, both during and after. Without open and honest communication with your partner, bad feelings can fester. Trust…

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I’m Bad at Flirting (and How to Fix It)

I’m Bad at Flirting (and How to Fix It)

October 10, 2019Author Shane

I examine the things I do (or don’t do) that make me bad at flirting. Erin pipes in with her own thoughts on the topic. I end with ideas on how to improve.

The Ambiguity of Male Sexiness

The Ambiguity of Male Sexiness

September 28, 2019Author Shane

What do women find sexy? Wit. Humor. Charm. What about physically? What is the man equivalent of lingerie? No clue. That’s the ambiguity of male sexiness.

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