I’m looking for an equivalent to the term MILF but for those without children. And also happy Mother’s Day!
Words, Definitions, and Conveying Meaning
Shane on a Soapbox: Swinger Vs. CNM Vs. ENM
Do you think there is a difference between consensual nonmonogam (CNM), ethical nonmonogamous (ENM), and swinging? Should there be?
Assists, Pushing, and Pressure in the Lifestyle
If you heard to us on the Average Swingers podcast, we didn’t quite wrapped the conversation about pushing versus pressure. So I wrote this.
Shane on a Soap Box: “As a Crutch”
There’s nothing wrong with using something as a crutch. Crutches are useful tools for helping people who need the assistance.
Shane on a Soapbox: The Word “Couple”
I’m trying to use more inclusive language, to avoid terms that are monogamy normative. But I’m having trouble replacing the word “couple.”
Shane on a Soapbox: Sexfest Versus Gangbang
For the first of my soapbox rants: There might be a better word than gangbang, but can we agree that it shouldn’t be sexfest?
Identity Versus Hobby: Can We Agree This Isn’t Easy?
If nonmonogamy is part of someone’s sexual, social, or emotional identity, then it’s probably harder for them to give it up during COVID.
What Does Soft Swap Even Mean?
I wanted a better, more concrete definition of soft swap for my own use. In coming up with one, I also defined full swap. Your mileage may vary.
It’s Not Been Easy to Define Our Playstyle
How do we define our playstyle when the usual designations like soft and full swap don’t really cover what we’re looking for?
Definition of Swinger: Is There an Entry Point?
What does it mean to be a swinger? There seems to be a lot of confusion around the word, so I wrote a clear, concise definition for us. You are welcome!