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Challenging “Drug Free”: What’s Your Comfort Level?

Challenging “Drug Free”: What’s Your Comfort Level?

June 4, 2020Author Shane

Rather than using the vague and inconsistent term “drug free” on dating sites, we propose a 1–7 scale that represents the comfort level people have with substances use.

The Cautionary Tale: MDMA Overconfidence

The Cautionary Tale: MDMA Overconfidence

May 28, 2020Author Erin

MDMA put our first full-swap experiences on Easy Mode. We weren’t ready for Normal Mode. This is our Cautionary Tale about drug and swapping combinations.

Drugs in the Lifestyle: Challenging the Perception

Drugs in the Lifestyle: Challenging the Perception

April 21, 2020Author Shane

The Swinging Downunder podcast had us on to talk about drugs in the lifestyle. Here are some more thoughts on the many misconceptions out there.

Hotwife Fantasies: Stag and Vixen Scenarios

Hotwife Fantasies: Stag and Vixen Scenarios

January 30, 2020Author Shane

We’re all about sexy stories here on the Fringe, so here are a few of our hotwife fantasies. Some are just sexy talk. Others we might make happen some day.

Outing Ourselves to Vanilla Friends

Outing Ourselves to Vanilla Friends

January 23, 2020Author Erin

By keeping quiet about our lifestyle activities, we avoid being open. Is outing ourselves to vanilla friends worth it to improve our friendships?

How We Stag and Vixen: Hotwifing on the Fringe

How We Stag and Vixen: Hotwifing on the Fringe

January 17, 2020Author Shane

From what we’re both looking for in potential bulls to how we find, vet, met, and then play with those guys, this post is all about how we stag and vixen.

Of Cuckolds, Hotwives, Stags, and Vixens

Of Cuckolds, Hotwives, Stags, and Vixens

January 4, 2020Author Shane

I explore the differences between cuckolds, hotwives, stags, and vixens and why I prefer the the term stag & vixen to describe a couple over hotwife.

The Private Affair (TPA): A Lifestyle Club Review

The Private Affair (TPA): A Lifestyle Club Review

December 27, 2019Author Shane

We have a few lifestyle clubs close to us. The Private Affair (TPA) is the one we go to the most because of the friendly atmosphere and fun people.

Consent in the Lifestyle: Easy and Sexy

Consent in the Lifestyle: Easy and Sexy

December 13, 2019Author Shane

When we first started our lifestyle journey, we thought getting consent would be difficult and disrupt the mood. Turns out, it’s easier than we thought!

Vigorous Finger Banging…OUCH!

Vigorous Finger Banging…OUCH!

October 31, 2019Author Erin

Guys, when you are playing with a pussy, do us ladies a favor: Don’t jump right to vigorous finger banging! Let us guide you on how hard and fast to go.

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