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Generative AI: Yes, You Really Can Use It for Anything

Generative AI: Yes, You Really Can Use It for Anything

October 20, 2023Author Shane

Generative AI seems to be all the rage, but can it help swingers? Depends on the kind of help you need!

Why Is Cheating More Acceptable Than Nonmonogamy?

Why Is Cheating More Acceptable Than Nonmonogamy?

March 9, 2023Author Shane

Cate shared an Instagram post regarding cheating. I replied to it. You might find this interesting. I needed blog content. Wins all around!

PCAP Highlights: Yes, I Had a Great Time!

PCAP Highlights: Yes, I Had a Great Time!

July 14, 2022Author Shane

This is not a PCAP Recap post. These are just some highlights to prove I actually had a good time. And some suggestions….

The Downward Spiral Toward True Understanding

The Downward Spiral Toward True Understanding

July 10, 2022Author Shane

Ironically the best parts of PCAP happened after PCAP ended. And analyzing PCAP helped me see my downward spiral into a depressed state.

PCAP 2022: A Retrospective of Our First LS Event

PCAP 2022: A Retrospective of Our First LS Event

July 8, 2022Author Shane

So how did we do at PCAP 2022? We did amazing for us! Which puts us close to “able to socialize like normal humans who live in a society.”

Conquering Social Anxiety and Introversion at PCAP 2022

Conquering Social Anxiety and Introversion at PCAP 2022

March 26, 2022Author Shane

Here’s my obligatory post about why attending PCAP 2022 is terrifying. It boils down to social anxiety, which I don’t have. Wait…what?

“Never Judge a Book by Its Cover” Is Dumb Advice

“Never Judge a Book by Its Cover” Is Dumb Advice

September 8, 2021Author Shane

It’s not a problem to judge a book by its cover. That’s what covers are for! Just be sure to look at the whole cover before deciding.

Shane on a Soapbox: Swinger Vs. CNM Vs. ENM

Shane on a Soapbox: Swinger Vs. CNM Vs. ENM

August 13, 2021Author Shane

Do you think there is a difference between consensual nonmonogam (CNM), ethical nonmonogamous (ENM), and swinging? Should there be?

Assists, Pushing, and Pressure in the Lifestyle

Assists, Pushing, and Pressure in the Lifestyle

May 11, 2021Author Shane

If you heard to us on the Average Swingers podcast, we didn’t quite wrapped the conversation about pushing versus pressure. So I wrote this.

Shane on a Soapbox: The Word “Couple”

Shane on a Soapbox: The Word “Couple”

January 22, 2021Author Shane

I’m trying to use more inclusive language, to avoid terms that are monogamy normative. But I’m having trouble replacing the word “couple.”

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