Even after 14 years of marriage, it’s still important to establish consent before engaging in sex. But how consent is communicated changes with time.
Let’s Chat: Opening Up About Fantasies and Desires
One of the golden rules of swingerdom is communication, being forthcoming and open with your significant other(s) and with your potential swinging partner(s). Communication is essential for everyone to feel safe and comfortable and to enjoy the experience, both during and after. Without open and honest communication with your partner, bad feelings can fester. Trust…
Sex and Marijuana
This post is all about our experiences combining sex and marijuana, why we like it, and the story about that time we had sex while Erin was really high!
Vigorous Finger Banging…OUCH!
Guys, when you are playing with a pussy, do us ladies a favor: Don’t jump right to vigorous finger banging! Let us guide you on how hard and fast to go.
No, Dealers Are Not Handing Out MDMA at Halloween
Not only are dealers are not handing out MDMA at Halloween, but rumors like this perpetuate false narratives around potentially beneficial substances.
Somewhat Naughty in New Orleans, Part 2
We love Bourbon Street and have always wanted to try MDMA there. On our recent trip, we got a somewhat naughty in New Orleans…for science!
Somewhat Naughty in New Orleans, Part 1
We recently visited New Orleans, one of our favorite places, and we got naughty with the Swinging Cajuns. Well, somewhat naughty.
I’m Bad at Flirting (and How to Fix It)
I examine the things I do (or don’t do) that make me bad at flirting. Erin pipes in with her own thoughts on the topic. I end with ideas on how to improve.
I’ve Been Hit On Four Times in My Life
I know I’ve been hit on at least four times in my life. It might be more than that, and I just missed it, but I’m sure about these! Pretty sure, anyway.
The Ambiguity of Male Sexiness
What do women find sexy? Wit. Humor. Charm. What about physically? What is the man equivalent of lingerie? No clue. That’s the ambiguity of male sexiness.