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Consent in Our Marriage and the Idea of Preconsent

Consent in Our Marriage and the Idea of Preconsent

December 2, 2019Author Shane

Even after 14 years of marriage, it’s still important to establish consent before engaging in sex. But how consent is communicated changes with time.

Let’s Chat: Opening Up About Fantasies and Desires

Let’s Chat: Opening Up About Fantasies and Desires

November 20, 2019Author Shane

One of the golden rules of swingerdom is communication, being forthcoming and open with your significant other(s) and with your potential swinging partner(s). Communication is essential for everyone to feel safe and comfortable and to enjoy the experience, both during and after. Without open and honest communication with your partner, bad feelings can fester. Trust…

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Sex and Marijuana

Sex and Marijuana

November 8, 2019Author Shane

This post is all about our experiences combining sex and marijuana, why we like it, and the story about that time we had sex while Erin was really high!

Vigorous Finger Banging…OUCH!

Vigorous Finger Banging…OUCH!

October 31, 2019Author Erin

Guys, when you are playing with a pussy, do us ladies a favor: Don’t jump right to vigorous finger banging! Let us guide you on how hard and fast to go.

No, Dealers Are Not Handing Out MDMA at Halloween

No, Dealers Are Not Handing Out MDMA at Halloween

October 27, 2019Author Shane

Not only are dealers are not handing out MDMA at Halloween, but rumors like this perpetuate false narratives around potentially beneficial substances.

Somewhat Naughty in New Orleans, Part 2

Somewhat Naughty in New Orleans, Part 2

October 24, 2019Author Shane

We love Bourbon Street and have always wanted to try MDMA there. On our recent trip, we got a somewhat naughty in New Orleans…for science!

Somewhat Naughty in New Orleans, Part 1

Somewhat Naughty in New Orleans, Part 1

October 20, 2019Author Shane

We recently visited New Orleans, one of our favorite places, and we got naughty with the Swinging Cajuns. Well, somewhat naughty.

I’m Bad at Flirting (and How to Fix It)

I’m Bad at Flirting (and How to Fix It)

October 10, 2019Author Shane

I examine the things I do (or don’t do) that make me bad at flirting. Erin pipes in with her own thoughts on the topic. I end with ideas on how to improve.

I’ve Been Hit On Four Times in My Life

I’ve Been Hit On Four Times in My Life

October 4, 2019Author Shane

I know I’ve been hit on at least four times in my life. It might be more than that, and I just missed it, but I’m sure about these! Pretty sure, anyway.

The Ambiguity of Male Sexiness

The Ambiguity of Male Sexiness

September 28, 2019Author Shane

What do women find sexy? Wit. Humor. Charm. What about physically? What is the man equivalent of lingerie? No clue. That’s the ambiguity of male sexiness.

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