I figured I’d wrap up my little hotwife exploration (hehehe, that sounds dirty) with a short (for me) post about some of our hotwife fantasies. These aren’t scenarios we are actually working toward. Yet. Some have potential for being played out eventually. Others are just fun to talk about.
And as she does sometimes, Erin jumps in to give her thoughts about these, which I think improves the whole post.
More Ms in the MFM
So far, we’ve only had MFM threesome. Erin and I are both curious about getting a few more guys involved. This one shouldn’t be too hard to get together if we decide to take the plunge. And it’s easy to build on: Add one more guy to the mix, and if that goes well, add another. Like Legos, only we’re building toward a gangbang.
As much as I enjoy watching Erin with another guy, I think it would be super sexy for me to watch her with two or more.
I Mostly Just Watch
I like seeing Erin engage with other guys, even if it’s just flirting. We were at a house party, and I went to refill mine and Erin’s drinks. I must have talked to a few people along the way, and when I looked back, Han (of Han and Leia, our lifestyle friends) was chatting with her. From where I stood, it looked flirty, the way he was leaning in and how she looked at him.
It was fucking hot!
So yeah, I’m totally on board to just step back and watch her getting hit on. Making out with someone. Fucking.
I mentioned before that Erin likes watching me jerk off as I watch her. But I could see a voyeur scene starting with me fully clothed as a way of purposefully removing myself from play. Maybe I direct it, but I don’t jump in.
This could also happen at a club. If we met someone (an established bull or a bull-hopeful), then she could have a quicky with him either in a room with an open window or, even better, out in the open. Just the two of them. I just watch. I’d like it more if this happens at the beginning of the night that way she’d be wet and horny for more from me later.
Erin: I do love having sex at the club and being a little exhibitionistic. It’s been a lot of fun to have sex with Shane in that environment, so I think I would enjoy bringing this fantasy into reality.
Caught Ya!
I’m out nerding it up with my friends (have I mentioned I’m in a regular D&D group? Sexy, right?), but while I’m there, Erin’s got a bull coming over. I get some texts as she waits with pictures of what she’s wearing for him. A few more when he shows up. Some action shots as the evening progresses. At the end of the game, I do my best to not crash my car as I rush home to join the fun.
Erin: I think this could be fun, and we might eventually work up to it.
A step beyond that would be me not knowing she’s got something scheduled with her bull, and I come home to find them going at it. That would certainly take some working up to.
Another version of this mirrors something that happened at the Pleasure Garden Club once. I went to the restroom, leaving Erin alone. While I was gone, a guy came up and asked if she’d like a cock to suck. A little bold since we hadn’t even spoken to this guy; that was just his “move” I guess. I think it would be incredibly hot to leave her alone in the club and come back to find her engaged with a guy: kissing, groping, sucking, whatever she managed to get up to during my absence.
Erin: If this is offered again and the guy strikes my fancy, I just might do it!
That Couple Next Door Did Something Like This
Jay and Kay from That Couple Next Door have an amazing story of one of their experiences that is along similar lines. Kay goes off to have some solo fun with The Artist. Jay is down the street at a bar, getting some sexy texts and waiting for just the right time to show up and “catch” them. Erin and I were all about that story! Time 5:35 to hear about the set up; 12:35 is where the story starts to pick up.
Worth the listen if you like the hotwife thing.
I’m Not Even There
This fantasy has a variety of set-ups, and most of them are likely once we’ve reached the right level of comfort with a bull. The most common involves me being away (I travel for work sometimes or to my family’s lake house to help with construction and yard projects) and her having a bull over for an evening. Much like the Caught Ya! example above, I get pictures and texts throughout so I can be a part of the experience.
What I like about this is the idea that Erin is horny, I’m not around, and she just handles it…but not in the typical way of using her vibrator. Also, if I’m in the area, I think I’d prefer to join in, so this one works better for me when I’m out of town.
Erin: I can see doing this at some point, but only with someone that we both feel really comfortable with. It is a delicate balancing act. We both like and trust our regular bull enough to do this in theory, but we haven’t gotten there yet in actual comfort level.
She Gets Super Slutty
Early on in my porn watching, I stumbled across Naughty Alysha. There aren’t very many porn stars I recognize. Fewer still whose names I know, but Naughty Alysha is up there. She did amatuer porn that involved a lot of hotwife action: picking up bulls and bringing them back to the room for her husband to film, going to adult theaters and starting a gangbang, or going to gloryholes and just sucking random cock.
I can’t imagine Erin ever doing that. I’m not sure I would want her to, even with me there to guard her. That just seems over the top. But I like naughty sluts, and Naughty Alysha’s escapades certainly fueled those fantasies.
Erin: Yeah, there are some things that are better left to just fantasy. Although the situations are fun to visualize, in reality I wouldn’t feel comfortable (and therefore would not be turned on).
The Offering
These are two scenarios that Erin described to me as things she’s fantasized about. They are pretty solidly in the “not happening” category. But definitely storylines I might eventually write. I already have the story in my head!
The first fantasy is of a couple getting pulled over for a traffic violation and a deal being struck with the cop: No ticket in exchange for him fucking the wife. Which he does on the hood of the car. The husband is there at the wheel while she’s bent over the hood being fucked, watching him watching her. As part of a story, I would end with some heavy implication that they got out of a lot of tickets this way.
Erin: I think I read some erotica like this, which is what put the idea in my head. This is a scenario that I fantasize a lot about to put myself over the edge.
The second involves the wife being used to pay off a gambling debt. Basically, a husband and wife show up at a motel where a loan shark and some of his flukeys bang the wife as compensation for the debt. The husband just sits there and watches. Now, in my story version, as the loan shark leaves, he makes a comment about that covering the first half of the amount and gives a number still owed. The wife is shocked by the amount…because they could easily have covered it with what was in their savings account. The husband agrees, but if he did that, she wouldn’t have gotten such a good gangbang!
I believe these fantasies appeal to Erin’s fantasies about being overpowered (in these cases by authority) and used (in these cases as an actual value exchange). There is some whoreishness in them without it being an actual monetary exchange.
Fantasy Versus Reality
Will we ever make any of these fantasies a reality? Maybe. But that’s not the point of talking about them. These fantasies help fuel our sex lives even without acting them out. Being open and honest about what we enjoy and by talking out these scenes has already improved our relationship.
Though, I certainly would enjoy moving these from the “Want to Do” column to the “Have Done, Would Do Again” one.
“Wait, Shane, is there actually a spreadsheet?”
Maybe…. Unless that’s weird. Is that weird?