It’s not a problem to judge a book by its cover. That’s what covers are for! Just be sure to look at the whole cover before deciding.
On a Soapbox
Shane on a Soapbox: Swinger Vs. CNM Vs. ENM
Do you think there is a difference between consensual nonmonogam (CNM), ethical nonmonogamous (ENM), and swinging? Should there be?
Shane on a Soap Box: “As a Crutch”
There’s nothing wrong with using something as a crutch. Crutches are useful tools for helping people who need the assistance.
Shane on a Soapbox: The Word “Couple”
I’m trying to use more inclusive language, to avoid terms that are monogamy normative. But I’m having trouble replacing the word “couple.”
Shane on a Soapbox: Sexfest Versus Gangbang
For the first of my soapbox rants: There might be a better word than gangbang, but can we agree that it shouldn’t be sexfest?