How do we define our playstyle when the usual designations like soft and full swap don’t really cover what we’re looking for?
Posts Tagged with We Gotta Thing
Forced Flirting: My Issue With Lifestyle Games
Playing icebreaker games at lifestyle events is pretty normal, but I don’t want someone flirting with me because a game forced her to.
Seven Lessons Learned During Podcast-A-Palooza
Rather than recapping the entirety of virtual Podcast-A-Palooza, I decided to limit myself to only seven lessons we learned.
A Look Back at a Year on the Fringe
We recently hit our one-year blogiversary! I thought it was a good time to look back at a year on the Fringe and see how much has changed across 12 months.
Project Anal, Part 1: Prep Work
Shane really wants to have anal sex with me, but I’ve never been able to enjoy it. So we’re starting Project Anal: My attempt to like anal sex.
Consent in the Lifestyle: Easy and Sexy
When we first started our lifestyle journey, we thought getting consent would be difficult and disrupt the mood. Turns out, it’s easier than we thought!
Consent in Our Marriage and the Idea of Preconsent
Even after 14 years of marriage, it’s still important to establish consent before engaging in sex. But how consent is communicated changes with time.
Let’s Chat: Opening Up About Fantasies and Desires
One of the golden rules of swingerdom is communication, being forthcoming and open with your significant other(s) and with your potential swinging partner(s). Communication is essential for everyone to feel safe and comfortable and to enjoy the experience, both during and after. Without open and honest communication with your partner, bad feelings can fester. Trust…
The Ambiguity of Male Sexiness
What do women find sexy? Wit. Humor. Charm. What about physically? What is the man equivalent of lingerie? No clue. That’s the ambiguity of male sexiness.
Breaking the Ice With the Game of Lifestyle
The played The Game of Lifestyle (or the Dumb Card game from the We Gotta Thing podcast) with another couple. Is it worth picking up for your next date?