Sex is awesome. But it can be damn difficult to talk about.. Opening up about fantasies and desires with a partner can be frightening, especially if those fantasies are a little beyond the norm. One of our goals for creating this site was to build a platform to promote sex and kink positivity, to talk about our own experiences, and give a little encouragement.
What We Are Into
In the past couple years, we started going to some local sex clubs: Pleasure Garden Club (PGC), The Private Affair (TPA), and Saints and Sinners (S&S). They each have their own vibe and their own pros and cons, but going to these clubs has revealed that we really like watching people get their kink on (not just having sex, but that’s fun, too) and that we’re kind of exhibitionists. We’ve had sex out in the open areas of the clubs, and if we are in a private room, we tend to pick one with a window.
We’re into BDSM, but it’s a less explored avenue for us. Erin read 50 Shades of Gray years ago and found it laughable. I read Sunstone and found it inspirational.
We’re swingers, more specifically, we are social swingers, which means we want to build up friendships and trust before jumping into bed with others. Mostly we do soft swap and parallel play, but we do full swap, though that’s a slower build usually.
I’m a stag, and Erin enjoys being the center of attention of multiple guys, so MFM threesomes are also a thing we enjoy. Erin has yet to have sex with another guy without me present, but it’s something we are working toward with the right bull. We’re also curious about her being the object of attention in a gangbang, though I’m not sure which of us is more interested in that becoming a reality. Probably me.